In this episode of Retire With Style, Wade Pfau and Alex Murguia introduce the fundamentals of long-term care planning as part of their ongoing walkthrough of the Retirement Planning Guidebook. They clarify what long-term care actually is, how it differs from traditional healthcare, and why it represents one of the largest and most unpredictable financial risks in retirement. The conversation explores how long-term care is defined, the likelihood of needing care, early warning signs to watch for, and the full continuum of care options from informal caregiving to nursing homes. They also outline the four primary ways to fund long-term care and discuss how retirees can begin thinking about planning for this potentially significant expense.
Takeaways
- Long-term care is generally defined as needing help with at least two activities of daily living for more than 100 days.
- Medicare does not cover long-term care, making it a critical planning gap for many retirees.
- Long-term care is one of the largest and most unpredictable retirement expenses, potentially exceeding $1 million in extreme cases.
- While many people will need care, much of it initially comes from unpaid caregivers like family members.
- Early warning signs often show up in managing finances, driving, or household tasks before basic daily living needs decline.
- Care exists on a spectrum, from in-home support to assisted living and nursing homes.
- There are four main ways to fund care: self-funding, Medicaid, traditional insurance, and hybrid insurance solutions.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Long-Term Care
01:38 Understanding Long-Term Care
06:08 Statistics on Long-Term Care Needs
11:39 Planning for Long-Term Care
12:49 Options for Long-Term Care
19:27 Funding Long-Term Care
24:44 Medicare vs. Medicaid for Long-Term Care
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Chapters
Welcome & Episode Overview
Alex Murguia 00:01
Hello everyone, welcome to Retire with Style. I'm Alex and I'm here with Wade Pfau. And today we are talking about long-term care.
Wade Pfau 00:13
Hey everyone.
Alex Murguia 00:14
Long-term care and wait what great advice did you give me right before we started the episode just now?
Wade Pfau 00:21
I was gonna let you hit the record button to avoid the confusion of us both hitting it and then it's starting and stopping. So just gotta be on the same page with everything.
Alex Murguia 00:28
Thank you, Wei. Yes, yes. Alrighty, man. Anything new happening since our last episode?
Wade Pfau 00:39
Well, this is actually the week right now as we're doing this, our retirement income challenge is an ongoing event and I'm predicting we're gonna have probably four or 500 people. We'll see if I'm right about that. But if you weren't part of the retirement income challenge this week, stay tuned because we'll do another one later this year. So it's a great opportunity to make sure you're on track with your financial plan. Yeah, and our 2026 tax map calculator is out now and yeah, things are rolling.
What is Long-Term Care?
Alex Murguia 01:19
Things are rolling. Train keeper rolling all night long. Alright, Wade. So today, long-term care. Just as a general thing, I think this is something people realize what it is, but may not know what it is. So, long-term care 101. What is it?
Wade Pfau 01:38
Yeah, and just for the context, we're still in our series going through the Retirement Planning Guidebook third edition and really providing an overview of what all is in there. And if you want to dig in for more details, it's the Retirement Planning Guidebook. Long-term care is chapter eight. Yeah, what is long-term care? It's specifically if you have an event that lasts more than 100 days to kind of distinguish it from a short-term care or some other particular type of care. But that's an important detail because to be very clear, Medicare does not pay for long-term care. And I think that's one of the biggest confusions out there. And in our previous episode, when we talked about the like $350,000 type healthcare estimate is what you might want to have at the start of retirement to cover retirement-based healthcare needs, that did not include long-term care.
Alex Murguia 03:01
So our previous episodes were on healthcare and retirement.
Wade Pfau 03:01
Now we're talking about long-term care, where your expenses related to long-term care could range anywhere from zero to, in some extreme cases, potentially with a long kind of dementia type experience, more than a million dollars. And we're really talking about like what long-term care is, how to plan for it, what it might cost, what options are available for receiving care, what options are available to fund care. Those are all the types of issues. We wanna talk about because long-term care, it's the biggest spending shock retirees can face. It's part of those retirement risks. The risk is that you have to spend more than you anticipated because you had a long-term care event that exceeded what your planning might've entailed.
Activities of Daily Living
Wade Pfau 03:24
In that regard though, as well, how is long-term care defined? We'll talk about long-term care insurance as well. And so when we get into the definition of long-term care, that's going to relate to how the insurance policy might define it. And usually it's if you need help with at least two of six activities of daily living. Those can vary a little bit from different insurance policies. But the six activities of daily living that are usually listed is if you need help with bathing, with continence, which is related to using the toilet, addressing, eating, toileting, and transferring, such as to or from a bed. Those are the six most common activities of daily living. And usually the two that people need help with first are gonna generally be related to bathing and dressing. And if you have a certified physician or other qualified medical expert, certify that you need help with at least two of these six activities of daily living, that's usually what would trigger the ability to receive a long-term care benefit.
Assessment & Qualification
Wade Pfau 03:24
So we can really use that as a definition for long-term care as well.
Alex Murguia 04:32
Now, now wait, I just want to make a distinction and maybe you would say, no, that's covered under this rubric, but it seems these are like daily living skills, right? But I didn't hear you mention eating, like cooking.
Wade Pfau 04:48
Cooking would relate to the eating. Although, yeah, it may be harder to convince someone that, obviously, if you can't feed yourself, that would be definitely going to qualify. But if you have trouble cooking, that one might be harder to really say, OK, this specifically qualifies you for the long-term care benefit. Yeah, that's where the meal may not taste very good, but technically, you could eat it.
Alex Murguia 05:09
How about if I have trouble eating your cooking?
Wade Pfau 05:18
You're out of luck.
Alex Murguia 05:22
Alright, it's for those... and how is that assessment made?
Wade Pfau 05:27
Well, a qualified medical physician or other medical professional indicates that you have this trouble, that you need assistance, and therefore you have a qualifying long-term care need. If you don't have any insurance or anything, this doesn't really matter at the end of the day. But that's just generally how we could define a long-term care need.
Likelihood of Needing Care
Alex Murguia 05:53
Okay. And then, based on these, I mean, these are things that are typical with aging. So, I'm curious what your take on this, but how likely are you to experience then a long-term care event?
Wade Pfau 06:08
Mm-hmm. So we've got some good data on that. It doesn't get published every year, but I do talk about in the retirement planning guide, but just data on the need for long-term care. There's a simplified statistic that gets quoted in the media that like 70% of people will need long-term care in their lifetime. But that's a bit of an exaggeration, and that really includes short-term care in addition to long-term care. But if we just look at, we can make a distinction between who needs long-term care support versus who has to pay for long-term care support. Because often the first providers of long-term care would be friends and family in unpaid caregiver capacity. But just in terms of the need, this is data from the Department of Health and Human Services. They estimate 49% of men and 64% of women who are turning 65 recently will need some form of care over their lifetime. And for men on average, they'll need help for two and a half years. For women on average, it's 3.6 years. And the percentage of the population needing support for more than five years, 18% of men, 26% of women.
Alex Murguia 07:53
Point six point.
Alex Murguia 08:01
What am I missing? I'm surprised that number is not higher. I would imagine someone listening in would be thinking, 100% of the people are eventually going to live long-term care, absent those that die of like a sudden heart attack or, you know, some sort of quick event, if you will, but those that sort of age out effectively aren't you going to need long-term care? It could be family, but it's still long-term care, as you mentioned.
Wade Pfau 08:29
Well, yeah, a lot of people will end up dying before needing care. And then this is specifically where you really have something that you need care for more than 100 days. So some of those cases too might be picked up. You develop some issue, but then ultimately you don't make it another 100 days. I guess that keeps you out of the statistics as well.
Alex Murguia 08:50
Okay, fair enough.
Wade Pfau 08:52
But yeah, 64% of women needing some form of care, just 36% make it without a need.
Alex Murguia 09:01
Yeah, 36% make it without a need or without exceeding the 100 days.
Wade Pfau 09:06
without exceeding the 100 days.
Early Warning Signs
Alex Murguia 09:10
Alright, anything from there that, from your research or and the like that, what's out of the, you know, the two out of six, what are the ones that are high on that list usually? In case people are listening. I want to a picture of people, of our listeners thinking about their parents. You know, what are things they should be maybe keeping an eye out that will give them a clue with regards to, okay.
Wade Pfau 09:22
Well, the ones that usually are most likely. With the formal activities of daily living, it's usually dressing and bathing where people develop problems first. But you might if you're kind of monitoring someone's situation, there's also incidental activities of daily living, things like paying bills or basic housekeeping, house cleaning. That might really become an issue that you can notice before it's clear that help is needed with the activities of daily living. If people are having trouble managing their finances or having trouble driving, having trouble cleaning the house, that's going to probably be a more obvious indicator that you see before getting the chance to observe some of those activities of daily living.
Alex Murguia 10:30
That's a good point. I noticed, like with my parents, like the executive functioning abilities really dropped off before just the basic living skills did.
Wade Pfau 10:40
And for those incidental activities, things like the driving or maintaining the house or paying the bills, that won't qualify you for long-term care insurance benefits, usually unless there's additional provisions that are dementia related. And then if you can somehow indicate that this is a qualifying condition, but that may be less common for insurance policies. You have to read the fine print carefully there.
Age to Consider & Care Options
Alex Murguia 11:10
Okay. And let's say someone's thinking about this for themselves or starting to think about this for their loved ones and the like. What's a bit of a... know we had some questions lined up, but I don't know if you addressed it in the book, but at what age, is there a sweet spot around what age to begin to think about this? And I want to follow that up with, and once you're in that sort of zone, Where can you go about getting it?
Wade Pfau 11:41
Well, If you're thinking about funding long-term care, that's a big important part of any retirement planning process. So it's harder to talk about a sweet spot for ages, specifically for long-term care insurance. Usually the advice is by the time you get to your 50s, you really want to be thinking about it because if you develop a condition, it might disqualify you from being eligible for long-term care insurance, either traditional long-term care insurance or life insurance that may include long-term care benefits and so forth. So you wanna get the protection in place before you need it or you might otherwise not be eligible. So that's where 50s often gets thrown out is you wanna be thinking about this by your 50s. Before your 50s, it's still a possibility to consider long-term care insurance, but there may be other competing needs on your finances where just having life insurance to protect your family or having disability insurance can all be higher priorities than getting long-term care insurance at younger ages.
Alex Murguia 12:49
Okay. And where can you get long-term care?
Wade Pfau 12:50
And then, yeah, so how to actually get help. So there's a continuum. It usually starts at home with that informal caregiving, assistance from families and friends. The next step after that, people generally do wanna stay in their home. And so another option that can be less expensive than some of these other options we'll discuss is, but still is getting more and more expensive each year. But having caregivers come to the home. So paid formal caregivers coming by the home to provide care. As part of that process too, there's adult daycare centers. And we had an episode with Jackie Smirka who runs an adult daycare center in suburban Detroit. She provided a lot of great information. That's to just help provide relief, especially if it's an informal caregiver. So that person can either go to work or to just have a break. Taking the individual to an adult daycare center so that they can spend the day doing activities and socializing with other people and things.
Alex Murguia 14:49
For everyone just listening to all these options. In the book, do you detail these options a little bit more so people have a nice cheat sheet, if you will?
Wade Pfau 14:57
Yes, that's the chapter seven of the retirement planning guidebook is going into greater depth on what we're talking about in today's episode.
Couples & Caregiver Impact
Alex Murguia 15:06
What about couples? Let's say, how often is it that one spouse takes care of the other one to their own detriment and then they quickly both need long-term care?
Wade Pfau 15:21
Mm-hmm. That is common. And so this is really an issue that more often impacts women, with women tending to live longer than men and also often being younger than their spouses, that the wife is put into a position of being the informal caregiver for their husband. And then eventually the husband passes away and the wife becomes a widow. And then when it's time for her to need care, there's no longer an informal caregiver available. And also the process of providing that care can be very stressful and can ultimately lead to a greater potential need. So informal caregivers sacrifice quite a bit. If it's still earlier in life that maybe an adult child is an informal caregiver, that can really disrupt their career, maybe qualifying for their own social security benefits and things. But then when spouses are put into that role, It's often the women providing care for the husband, outliving the husband, and then having to pay for their own care, and perhaps after resources have been depleted for that person.
Continuing Care Retirement Communities
Wade Pfau 16:40
Now, one other aspect for couples, when we listed the continuum of long-term care options, there's also continuing care retirement communities, which can be expensive to move into.
Alex Murguia 16:40
Can you identify that? Because I think that's important and that's what a lot of folks, at least a lot of my family, on my wife's side have been going through where it's the pre-step, a preamble if you will, to potentially having a nursing, going to a nursing home. But the importance of choosing a continuing care facility before there's an actual need for long-term care in terms of just being able to get into one and the like. I think that whole process and dynamic is interesting.
Wade Pfau 17:09
Yeah, yeah. So this is like another senior housing option where you move into a community before ever needing care. But then and there's different ways the contracts can be set up in terms of how much is prepaid or how much do you pay as needed for care. But within one broader community or neighborhood, you have all the levels of long term care available with the independent living and then support at home, assisted living nursing homes. It's all within one broader community, which can be important for spouses because if one of the spouses needs to go to a nursing home, it will be a lot easier to visit that person when it's all part of the same general community versus if the other spouse isn't necessarily able to drive and things, it could be a lot harder to have that ongoing interaction that would ultimately split up the couple in a way that you've got a better foundation to not be fully split up in that manner with the continuing care retirement community.
The Care Spectrum
Alex Murguia 18:15
And so then, so you can get in, just in summary, they can get long-term care through.
Wade Pfau 18:26
You mean for the facilities?
Alex Murguia 18:28
Yeah, I'm just thinking of people listening out, the folks that are listening in, just so they get like a list in their head. Okay, can obviously get insurance, you know, I can get long-term care, you know, informally through loved ones. I can, you know, potentially go to a continuing care facility that then turns into a more significant long-term care solution, etc.
Wade Pfau 18:39
Mm-hmm.
Wade Pfau 18:48
Yeah, the continuing care retirement community, that would be an umbrella, a way to get all the different levels of care at one place, but then those levels of care, right, the informal caregiving at home from friends and family, formally paid caregivers who come to your home to provide that care, assisted living and then adult daycare centers are working in there, then nursing homes. That's the spectrum of care that's available.
Four Ways to Fund Care
Alex Murguia 19:18
Okay, now let's talk about it from a spectrum of funding for long-term care.
Wade Pfau 19:26
So there's generally four ways to fund long-term care expenses. The first would be self-funding, where you set aside enough reserve assets so that you've got the resources to pay the long-term care bills as needed. You've got Medicaid. This is not Medicare, but Medicaid. Medicaid is once you've exhausted your resources, there's income and wealth levels. And it varies a bit from state to state. But once you're effectively deemed to be destitute, then you can use Medicaid to pay for long-term care. There's also long-term care insurance. There's the traditional long-term care insurance policies where you pay an ongoing monthly premium. Usually the premium ends once you qualify for a need and then the benefits would be paid out according to how the policy is designed. And then there's also the hybrid insurance approaches, which combine long-term care benefits into either more commonly a life insurance policy, but sometimes also an annuity. And the way the annuity might work is the annuity pays out at a particular level, but if you qualify for a long-term care need, it doubles the monthly benefit you receive. Something along those lines.
Cost Planning & Calculations
Alex Murguia 20:48
So with regards to it doubles and the like talking about monetary value, how much should people think about setting aside for long-term care expenses?
Wade Pfau 20:58
Well, if they're going to self-fund, I talk about a long-term care calculator in the book. And then also, with our funded ratio, you kind of set up a contingency expense. To feel comfortable retiring, what would you like to be able to cover with respect to long-term care? And that just means designing a scenario. I also talk about in the book, there's the Genworth does an annual cost of care survey. Maybe it's worth mentioning those numbers. So the survey was last conducted in 2024. On average in the country, they also show these numbers state by state, but homemaker services, you're looking at, this is annual numbers, $75,500 a year. Home health aid, $77,800 a year. Adult daycare centers average $26,000 a year. Assisted living, averages $70,800 a year. A nursing home in a semi-private room, $111,300 a year. In nursing home in a private room, $127,750 a year. Now those were 2024 numbers. You also have to deal with the idea that long-term care expenses are projected to rise faster than inflation. So if inflation you're thinking might be two and a half to 3%, you might want to be thinking about five or 6% as an inflation rate for long-term care. Then the other aspect too is if you need long-term care, a lot of the other parts of your budget are probably gonna go away, especially if you move to a facility, then you no longer just, the bills will include to pay for food and that sort of thing. So you wouldn't have your separate budget for independent living plus your budget for the long-term care. So you can offset some of your other expenses.
Wade Pfau 23:19
And then I walked through, we created a long-term care calculator where you enter this information. How old are you? What kind of event do you want to plan for? So if I decide, I want to be able to pay for a nursing home between the ages of 93 and 95. What would the annual outlay for that look like in terms of how much will you spend? What inflation rate do you want to use for the long-term care need? How much would your other expenses be offset? If you have that long-term care need, what's the inflation rate on your regular budget? And then what's the discount rate? And that can help you then calculate a present value of kind of like we talked about last week with the fidelity estimates of this is how much you want to set aside for health care and retirement. Well, going through this calculation would tell you this is how much you want to set aside for paying for a long-term care contingency in retirement. And of course, it's impossible to plan for the worst case scenario and everything. Like if you're saying, well, I want to pay for 10 years in a nursing home in case I have dementia. That can be a challenge because that's going to be incredibly expensive. If you are self-funding, at some point you might deplete your asset base and then Medicaid becomes an option. But if otherwise you're thinking about self-funding in a manner that won't deplete all your resources and realistically you decide if I could pay for three years in a nursing home for myself, two years for a spouse, that's a pretty conservative scenario. That should be sufficient that I can't really plan for more than that, but I'll feel comfortable if I could fund that. That's how to think about describing a long-term care event for your plan.
Medicare vs. Medicaid
Alex Murguia 24:33
Got you. Now, you had said Medicaid, but earlier you mentioned Medicare. Medicare does not cover this.
Wade Pfau 24:44
Right. Medicaid is the health insurance for the indigent who do not have resources. Medicare is what we talked about last week. Health insurance for Americans, usually age 65 and older, is when you become eligible. And Medicare does have something that looks a little bit like long-term care, but it's under very specific circumstances, including a three-night stay in a hospital, a condition that requires physical therapy or other type of care for up to 100 days. That's the scenario where Medicare might pay something, but it never pays for more than 100 days. And when we said at the beginning, like long-term care is defined as 100 or more days, Medicare does not pay for long-term care needs. You have to either.
Alex Murguia 25:30
So do think people could use this as a supplement?
Wade Pfau 25:33
Medicare supplements do not pay for long.
Alex Murguia 25:35
No, I don't mean a Medicare supplement in that kind of terms. Just mean as a compliment.
Wade Pfau 25:41
too.
Alex Murguia 25:41
Because with Medicare, you got the first 100 days. With a long-term care policy, you got the next 100.
Wade Pfau 25:45
But it's only the first hundred days under very limited circumstances. And it's for a specific medical condition that required a hospital stay. If you're just having trouble bathing or dressing, that wouldn't qualify for getting any benefits through Medicare. But if you're using long-term care insurance, there's going to be a period where once you become eligible that you need care, you might have a 60 or 90 day waiting period where you're self-funding. And a longer waiting period can help reduce the costs of the insurance premiums. So you're looking for a good balance there. 60 or 90 days would be common, where I'm going to self-fund during this waiting period, and then the benefits kick in. And if it worked out that you have a condition that Medicare would pay for, well, there's also issues with Medicare that you're really expected to recover, I believe. And that may not always be apparent if you really do have what's believed or deemed to be a permanent long-term care need.
Long-Term Care Insurance Features
Alex Murguia 26:52
Okay.
Wade Pfau 26:55
Yeah, I mean, if you're thinking about long-term care insurance, there's all kinds of features about how the policies work. If you want to save that for another episode or?
Alex Murguia 27:03
Do you want to go through one? Let's go through a...trithing? Yeah, let's do that. Alright, everyone. Welcome to the initial entry into long-term care, and we'll catch you next week as we go into the features of long-term care policies. Riveting, isn't it, That's important stuff. Alright, catch you next week, everyone, on Retire with Style.
Wade Pfau 27:09
Okay.
Wade Pfau 27:23
All right, yeah. Yeah, so yeah, let's stay tuned for more on long-term care.


